Insiders Who Are Outsiders

Beloved friend,

Grace and peace to you.

I’ve been sitting with 2 Peter 2:13-16 this morning, and I wanted to share some thoughts with you the way we might talk over a cup of coffee—honest, careful, and hoping the Spirit does the real work in both of us. Here’s the passage again from the NIV:

They will be paid back with harm for the harm they have done. Their idea of pleasure is to carouse in broad daylight. They are blots and blemishes, reveling in their pleasures while they feast with you.
With eyes full of adultery, they never stop sinning; they seduce the unstable; they are experts in greed—an accursed brood!
They have left the straight way and wandered off to follow the way of Balaam son of Bezer, who loved the wages of wickedness.
But he was rebuked for his wrongdoing by a donkey—an animal without speech—who spoke with a human voice and restrained the prophet’s madness.

Peter is in the middle of a strong warning about false teachers who had wormed their way into the churches. These weren’t outsiders shouting from the street; they were sharing the fellowship meals—probably the love feasts that included the Lord’s Supper. And instead of treating those gatherings as holy, they turned them into parties.

“Carouse in broad daylight” isn’t just about timing; it shows how shameless they were. Most people hide their excess under cover of night. These folks flaunted it. Peter calls them “blots and blemishes.” In the Old Testament sacrificial system, any spot or defect disqualified an animal from being offered to God. So Peter is saying these teachers were like impurities right in the middle of the worshiping community—visible stains on what should have been pure.

Then he gets even more specific in verse 14. “Eyes full of adultery”—the Greek picture is eyes so packed with lust that every look is already committing the act in the heart. They never stop sinning; the verb suggests a continuous, restless habit. And they don’t keep it to themselves. They “seduce the unstable”—people whose faith is still finding its footing, the ones who are curious or vulnerable. It’s not accidental; it’s predatory.

On top of that, they are “experts in greed.” The word for “experts” is the same one used for athletes who have trained hard. These teachers had practiced covetousness until it was second nature. Peter doesn’t mince words: “an accursed brood.” He’s echoing the language of people who stand under God’s judgment, not because God is mean, but because their whole way of life has chosen the curse over the blessing.

The comparison to Balaam in verses 15-16 drives it home. You remember the story in Numbers 22–24. Balaam was a prophet-for-hire. Balak, the king of Moab, offered him serious money to curse Israel. Balaam knew better—God had already told him not to—but the “wages of wickedness” kept calling. He packed up and went anyway. That’s when the Lord opened the mouth of his donkey. Can you picture it? A stubborn, ordinary animal starts talking sense while the professional prophet is charging ahead in madness. The donkey sees the angel of the Lord with a drawn sword; Balaam is so focused on the payday that he misses it completely. Peter says these false teachers have “left the straight way”—the clear, well-worn path of obedience Jesus walked and taught—and wandered onto Balaam’s road. Same motive: loving the profit more than the truth.

Here’s what strikes me as I read this with you. Peter isn’t just giving us a history lesson or a list of bad people to avoid. He’s showing us how subtle and how serious the drift can be. It starts with a heart that treats God’s gifts as personal playgrounds. It grows when our eyes linger where they shouldn’t. It hardens when we start calculating what we can gain instead of what honors Christ. And before long, the “straight way” feels optional. The mercy in the story is that God still speaks—sometimes through the most unexpected voices—to restrain us before the madness takes over.

So let’s talk about us for a minute. None of us sets out to become a “blot” in the family of God. But the same currents that pulled those teachers are still flowing. The question isn’t whether the temptation exists; it’s whether we’re paying attention to the quiet warnings along the way.Here are a few questions I’ve been asking myself—maybe they’ll help you listen too:

1. When I’m in fellowship with other believers—meals, small groups, even online conversations—am I mostly looking to give or to take? Where might I be treating holy moments as opportunities for my own pleasure or status?
2. What does “eyes full of…” look like in my daily life right now? Is there a screen, a relationship, a daydream that keeps pulling my gaze away from purity? What would it mean to ask Jesus to fill those eyes with something better?
3. Where have I been “training” in greed—quietly calculating advantage, comparing, or protecting my comfort more than trusting God’s provision?
4. Can I name a time when God used something ordinary or unexpected (a conversation, a setback, even a stubborn “donkey” of a circumstance) to stop me from wandering farther? How did I respond?
5. Who around me might be “unstable” right now—new in faith, going through a hard season, easily influenced—and how can I help steady them instead of, even unintentionally, pulling them toward my own weak spots?

I’m grateful we get to walk this road together. The same Lord who rebuked Balaam is the One who walked the straight way perfectly for us, and who still speaks with patience when we start to drift. Let’s keep listening, keep returning, and keep enjoying the freedom that comes from staying close to Him.

With real affection and prayer for you,
Your brother along the way