When Curses Flutter By

Proverbs 26:2 says, “Like a fluttering sparrow or a darting swallow, an undeserved curse does not come to rest” (NIV). Picture it: a little bird zips overhead, looks around, shrugs its tiny shoulders, and keeps going. It never lands on you. That is Solomon’s picture of a curse, insult, or slander that has no just cause behind it.

In the ancient world, people took curses seriously. Words were thought to have almost magical power. Solomon, with typical wisdom-literature understatement, says: not if they are undeserved. A curse without a landing strip just keeps flying.

Sparrows dart. Swallows wheel and dive. They do not settle unless there is a nest, a crumb, or a reason. An undeserved curse is the same. It has nowhere to roost because God has not given it permission. Matthew Henry put it simply: the curse does the innocent no more harm than a bird flying over his head.

This is not a promise that mean words will never sting. It is a promise that they cannot stick in the way the speaker hopes. Gossip may circulate. Accusations may fly. Someone may try to speak failure, shame, or doom over you. If there is no cause—if you have not given the enemy a foothold of unconfessed sin or willful rebellion—those words do not get to take up residence.

Balaam discovered this the hard way. He was hired to curse Israel and could only say, “How can I curse those whom God has not cursed?” (Numbers 23:8). The prophet was paid to launch birds that had nowhere to land.

Most of us do not have professional curse-casters on retainer. We have co-workers who mutter, relatives who “just tell it like it is,” online strangers who diagnose our character from three posts, and the occasional well-meaning saint who delivers a “word from the Lord” that sounds suspiciously like their own frustration.

The proverb does not tell us to pretend those words do not hurt. It tells us they do not have the final authority. The righteous are not sitting ducks for every flying insult. God is not obligated to honor every angry sentence spoken in our direction.

There is even a quiet hint in some readings that the curse may eventually circle back toward the one who sent it. Birds of passage tend to return home. That is not our job to arrange. Our job is to keep our own hearts clean so there is no convenient perch.

For the Christian, this proverb finds its deepest rest in Jesus. He absorbed every undeserved curse—ours included—on the cross. “Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us” (Galatians 3:13). The accusations that actually had a case against us were nailed there.

Now Romans 8:33 asks the question that should settle our nerves: “Who will bring any charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies.” If the Judge of all the earth has declared you righteous in Christ, the sparrow of slander can flutter all it wants. It has no legal right to land.

That does not make us reckless. We still confess real sin quickly. We still refuse to give the devil a foothold. But we also refuse to live as if every harsh word is a prophecy that must come true.

So the next time someone tries to speak death over your marriage, your calling, your kids, or your future, you can smile a little. Picture a slightly indignant swallow circling, looking for a place to sit, and finding only the solid ground of God’s verdict. Then go about your day. The bird has other places to be.

A Few Questions to Sit With

  1. Is there any “cause” you have given—an unconfessed pattern, a bitter root, a hidden compromise—that might be giving an accusation a place to land? What would repentance look like this week?
  2. Whose words have you been treating as if they have more authority than God’s? A parent’s old criticism? A former spouse’s prediction? An anonymous comment?
  3. How might remembering that Jesus became the curse for you change the way you respond when someone speaks against you?
  4. Is there someone you have been quietly (or not so quietly) cursing with your words or your attitudes? What would it look like to bless them instead?

A Sheep Saunters Into 2 Peter 2:13-16

Insiders Who Are Outsiders

Beloved friend,

Grace and peace to you.

I’ve been sitting with 2 Peter 2:13-16 this morning, and I wanted to share some thoughts with you the way we might talk over a cup of coffee—honest, careful, and hoping the Spirit does the real work in both of us. Here’s the passage again from the NIV:

They will be paid back with harm for the harm they have done. Their idea of pleasure is to carouse in broad daylight. They are blots and blemishes, reveling in their pleasures while they feast with you.
With eyes full of adultery, they never stop sinning; they seduce the unstable; they are experts in greed—an accursed brood!
They have left the straight way and wandered off to follow the way of Balaam son of Bezer, who loved the wages of wickedness.
But he was rebuked for his wrongdoing by a donkey—an animal without speech—who spoke with a human voice and restrained the prophet’s madness.

Peter is in the middle of a strong warning about false teachers who had wormed their way into the churches. These weren’t outsiders shouting from the street; they were sharing the fellowship meals—probably the love feasts that included the Lord’s Supper. And instead of treating those gatherings as holy, they turned them into parties.

“Carouse in broad daylight” isn’t just about timing; it shows how shameless they were. Most people hide their excess under cover of night. These folks flaunted it. Peter calls them “blots and blemishes.” In the Old Testament sacrificial system, any spot or defect disqualified an animal from being offered to God. So Peter is saying these teachers were like impurities right in the middle of the worshiping community—visible stains on what should have been pure.

Then he gets even more specific in verse 14. “Eyes full of adultery”—the Greek picture is eyes so packed with lust that every look is already committing the act in the heart. They never stop sinning; the verb suggests a continuous, restless habit. And they don’t keep it to themselves. They “seduce the unstable”—people whose faith is still finding its footing, the ones who are curious or vulnerable. It’s not accidental; it’s predatory.

On top of that, they are “experts in greed.” The word for “experts” is the same one used for athletes who have trained hard. These teachers had practiced covetousness until it was second nature. Peter doesn’t mince words: “an accursed brood.” He’s echoing the language of people who stand under God’s judgment, not because God is mean, but because their whole way of life has chosen the curse over the blessing.

The comparison to Balaam in verses 15-16 drives it home. You remember the story in Numbers 22–24. Balaam was a prophet-for-hire. Balak, the king of Moab, offered him serious money to curse Israel. Balaam knew better—God had already told him not to—but the “wages of wickedness” kept calling. He packed up and went anyway. That’s when the Lord opened the mouth of his donkey. Can you picture it? A stubborn, ordinary animal starts talking sense while the professional prophet is charging ahead in madness. The donkey sees the angel of the Lord with a drawn sword; Balaam is so focused on the payday that he misses it completely. Peter says these false teachers have “left the straight way”—the clear, well-worn path of obedience Jesus walked and taught—and wandered onto Balaam’s road. Same motive: loving the profit more than the truth.

Here’s what strikes me as I read this with you. Peter isn’t just giving us a history lesson or a list of bad people to avoid. He’s showing us how subtle and how serious the drift can be. It starts with a heart that treats God’s gifts as personal playgrounds. It grows when our eyes linger where they shouldn’t. It hardens when we start calculating what we can gain instead of what honors Christ. And before long, the “straight way” feels optional. The mercy in the story is that God still speaks—sometimes through the most unexpected voices—to restrain us before the madness takes over.

So let’s talk about us for a minute. None of us sets out to become a “blot” in the family of God. But the same currents that pulled those teachers are still flowing. The question isn’t whether the temptation exists; it’s whether we’re paying attention to the quiet warnings along the way.Here are a few questions I’ve been asking myself—maybe they’ll help you listen too:

  1. When I’m in fellowship with other believers—meals, small groups, even online conversations—am I mostly looking to give or to take? Where might I be treating holy moments as opportunities for my own pleasure or status?
  2. What does “eyes full of…” look like in my daily life right now? Is there a screen, a relationship, a daydream that keeps pulling my gaze away from purity? What would it mean to ask Jesus to fill those eyes with something better?
  3. Where have I been “training” in greed—quietly calculating advantage, comparing, or protecting my comfort more than trusting God’s provision?
  4. Can I name a time when God used something ordinary or unexpected (a conversation, a setback, even a stubborn “donkey” of a circumstance) to stop me from wandering farther? How did I respond?
  5. Who around me might be “unstable” right now—new in faith, going through a hard season, easily influenced—and how can I help steady them instead of, even unintentionally, pulling them toward my own weak spots?

I’m grateful we get to walk this road together. The same Lord who rebuked Balaam is the One who walked the straight way perfectly for us, and who still speaks with patience when we start to drift. Let’s keep listening, keep returning, and keep enjoying the freedom that comes from staying close to Him.

With real affection and prayer for you,
Your brother along the way