When Curses Flutter By

Proverbs 26:2 says, “Like a fluttering sparrow or a darting swallow, an undeserved curse does not come to rest” (NIV). Picture it: a little bird zips overhead, looks around, shrugs its tiny shoulders, and keeps going. It never lands on you. That is Solomon’s picture of a curse, insult, or slander that has no just cause behind it.

In the ancient world, people took curses seriously. Words were thought to have almost magical power. Solomon, with typical wisdom-literature understatement, says: not if they are undeserved. A curse without a landing strip just keeps flying.

Sparrows dart. Swallows wheel and dive. They do not settle unless there is a nest, a crumb, or a reason. An undeserved curse is the same. It has nowhere to roost because God has not given it permission. Matthew Henry put it simply: the curse does the innocent no more harm than a bird flying over his head.

This is not a promise that mean words will never sting. It is a promise that they cannot stick in the way the speaker hopes. Gossip may circulate. Accusations may fly. Someone may try to speak failure, shame, or doom over you. If there is no cause—if you have not given the enemy a foothold of unconfessed sin or willful rebellion—those words do not get to take up residence.

Balaam discovered this the hard way. He was hired to curse Israel and could only say, “How can I curse those whom God has not cursed?” (Numbers 23:8). The prophet was paid to launch birds that had nowhere to land.

Most of us do not have professional curse-casters on retainer. We have co-workers who mutter, relatives who “just tell it like it is,” online strangers who diagnose our character from three posts, and the occasional well-meaning saint who delivers a “word from the Lord” that sounds suspiciously like their own frustration.

The proverb does not tell us to pretend those words do not hurt. It tells us they do not have the final authority. The righteous are not sitting ducks for every flying insult. God is not obligated to honor every angry sentence spoken in our direction.

There is even a quiet hint in some readings that the curse may eventually circle back toward the one who sent it. Birds of passage tend to return home. That is not our job to arrange. Our job is to keep our own hearts clean so there is no convenient perch.

For the Christian, this proverb finds its deepest rest in Jesus. He absorbed every undeserved curse—ours included—on the cross. “Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us” (Galatians 3:13). The accusations that actually had a case against us were nailed there.

Now Romans 8:33 asks the question that should settle our nerves: “Who will bring any charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies.” If the Judge of all the earth has declared you righteous in Christ, the sparrow of slander can flutter all it wants. It has no legal right to land.

That does not make us reckless. We still confess real sin quickly. We still refuse to give the devil a foothold. But we also refuse to live as if every harsh word is a prophecy that must come true.

So the next time someone tries to speak death over your marriage, your calling, your kids, or your future, you can smile a little. Picture a slightly indignant swallow circling, looking for a place to sit, and finding only the solid ground of God’s verdict. Then go about your day. The bird has other places to be.

A Few Questions to Sit With

  1. Is there any “cause” you have given—an unconfessed pattern, a bitter root, a hidden compromise—that might be giving an accusation a place to land? What would repentance look like this week?
  2. Whose words have you been treating as if they have more authority than God’s? A parent’s old criticism? A former spouse’s prediction? An anonymous comment?
  3. How might remembering that Jesus became the curse for you change the way you respond when someone speaks against you?
  4. Is there someone you have been quietly (or not so quietly) cursing with your words or your attitudes? What would it look like to bless them instead?

Reflections on 20 years of service

This year marks the 20th anniversary of Ta Ethne. From humble beginnings in 1995 using Prodigy dial-up to start what was then called Discernment Ministries to partnerships across the globe, God has blessed us with many opportunities. We started by offering Personal Investigative Bible Studies free to any who wanted one and writing articles on the dangers of heresies in the church. Growth was slow and while many audio and written resources were produced and distributed we seemed to struggle just to stay afloat. 2004 saw the lowest point of our existence. Grand were the plans that year, with the biggest being a Bible Institute. Courses were prepared, instructors lines up, a building secured and a launch date was set. An online option was offered and we enrolled our first students from India. Then the wheels came off one by one, the institute never materialized,  and we had to see where we missed God’s leading.

From that soul searching moment came 2005 and a new direction began. A trip to East Asia unexpectedly led us to work with the underground church and started a partnership that is still running. That was followed by training opportunities in Malaysian churches and the rest was history. Books started to be written and made available, speaking engagements started happening and our role of helping to train church leaders across the globe was cemented.

A couple years ago we relaunched with the name Ta Ethne, feeling it better fit our purpose. A move to the Southeast US was also accomplished and new resources continue to be developed.  God willing, in the coming year, we will begin production on an audio version of The 180 Project and begin work on some new resources.

Continue to lift us up in prayer as we look forward to serving another 20, 30, 40 years or longer. Partner with us and spread the word. Have us come for a seminar or conference or help donate so we can continue to offer resources free to churches in other countries. We have invitations to go and speak in India and the Philippines and simply are waiting for the funds to come in. God has blessed us these many years and we are confident He will continue to bless us in the future.

The Blessings of God

During the recent transition from Montana to Florida, we saw God’s blessings in many ways. We braved flooded highways, mechanical problems, stormy weather and the pressure of a time schedule, yet found wonderful people across the country willing to help. In South Dakota we needed to replace an axle. After limping into Sioux Falls late one Sunday evening, we faced the prospect of finding a good mechanic that could fit us in on short notice. The good folks at Graham Tires got us in, fixed the axle and had us back on the road before 10:00. Great customer care and good service, at a very reasonable cost.
All through Missouri and Arkansas we were either running just ahead or behind the storms that generated the deadly tornadoes in Oklahoma. We stopped early a couple times to allow the weather to pass and praised God for the earlier delays that kept us out of the storms. Leaving Memphis, we ran into torrential rains that forced us to stop for the night in Mississippi instead of making it to Alabama like we had planned for the night. The next day, we continued our journey and had suffered a blow out on the trailer we were pulling. Had we undergone this the night before instead of stopping it would have been very dangerous. A kind gentleman stopped to help us change the tire even though he was on his way to the hospital to see his wife and the new baby they had that was born the night before. How grateful we were for his help and the blessing of meeting him.
After a day’s delay finding new trailer tires we continued our journey. Because of leaving late, we could not make it into Jacksonville on schedule. We stopped for the night chafing at yet another delay. How foolish we were. Continuing the next day, we had just left the interstate when a tire blew on our vehicle. This was unexpected, as they were brand new and we had not run over anything on the road. We found out later it was a defective tire. After 3 hours we managed, with the help of a tow truck operator, to get the tire off and a spare on. We limped back to the nearest town for a new tire and then headed to Jacksonville, arriving about four in the afternoon.
Now we were really frustrated with it being late on a Friday Memorial Day weekend. We had missed meeting with our Realtor due to arriving three days later than scheduled and the holiday. I was really not looking forward to spending extended time in a hotel after a long, exhausting trip. On the way into town, we had seen a sign advertising a home for rent. We called the number, met with the owners (who had advertised just hours earlier) and moved in the next day. Only God could work out a place to stay within 24 hours of arriving in a city. While temporary, we are grateful to have a place to stay that is convenient and time to look for a permanent space for Ta Ethne to grow, as well as for our family to live. God has shown us His timing, His blessings and taught us a valuable lesson of trusting in Him.
Praise God from Whom all blessings flow.

Thoughts on Thanksgiving Week Continued

It is traditional to make a list of things you are thankful for at Thanksgiving. Most of the time we focus on material things we have been blessed with. Some go deeper, thanking God for spiritual blessings bestowed during the year. Thanks for friends, family, health and employment top many lists. One category that gets left off many lists is arguably the most important. We should thank God for the things He has taken away from us.

In order to love the Lord our God with all of our heart, soul, strength and mind as commanded means we have to give up any and everything that obscures Him in our lives. Praise be to Him that He works in our lives to conform us to the image of His Son. To do this, He many times has to prune away those things that hinder us from reaching that goal. It may be that He has helped you to kick a destructive habit, end an unhealthy relationship, stop a hurtful lifestyle. It may be that He has forced you to accept the death of a loved one in order to lean only on Him. He may have taken away your job in order to prove to you that He is sufficient to meet all your needs.

As you make your list this year, how about including thanks for the things taken away that has made your faith stronger? I guarantee that it will surprise you what the Lord has done.